In my lifetime, I have learned three languages, Arabic, English and Spanish. Like any person who has learned their native language, I don’t recall the process of learning Arabic. Neither do I remember learning English. My journey with both languages started as soon as I was able to speak. My parents made sure I would practice both languages at the same time. To not favor one language over the other, I started speaking Arabic to my father and English to my mother. Like any child, I started formulating grammatically correct sentences by just listening and reading. Even as I grew up and started learning grammar in school, it all came naturally to me. I don’t recall the process of learning Arabic and English, but Spanish is a whole other story.
I wanted to take advantage of my time in college by learning as much as I could. I took electives that ranged from art to biology. Though I’m technically studying abroad right now, I wanted to seize the opportunity of living in one more country for a semester. My options were limited since I planned on going through the Business School. I eventually decided on Madrid, Spain. And though all of my classes were going to be in English, I knew I would never really experience the country and its culture if I didn’t know its language. And so my decision to learn Spanish was made.
I took two intensive Spanish classes before going abroad. Going into it, I thought I would have an advantage over my classmates by already knowing two languages. I quickly learned that I was wrong. It was a whole new experience for me. I have never in my life actually sat down to memorize a list of basic words in another language, mesa means table, ajo means garlic. My first month was very difficult for me. I had a hard time trying to connect the three languages together. Should I think in English and then translate it into Spanish? Or would Arabic to Spanish be easier for me? The vocabulary was closer to English but the grammar was more similar to Arabic.
Thankfully, after the first month, I developed a routine and system that helped me throughout the next two years. I discovered that doing each and every homework assignment was essential to learning the language. Practice really does make perfect, or at least, as close to perfect as I could get. I memorized the 60+ vocabulary words that were assigned to us weekly twice and practiced grammar as much as I could. I learned that writing down what I learn is the best way to make sure I don’t forget it and that reviewing was essential. Once I got the hang of everything, I started to excel in class. I ended up with an A+ for both classes.
I enjoyed learning Spanish a lot. It’s a wonderful feeling when you finally realize that you can actually understand the Latinos that are on the other table, or when a Spanish friend is calling her mom. Knowing Spanish made my study abroad experience so much more interesting. I lived with a Spanish lady in her late 70s. We often had tea together and our conversations ranged from talking about the dictatorship to what her favorite biscuits were.
One of the things that I’ve learned from learning Spanish is that interacting with people who are native to the language is much more interesting than pursuing a language for academic reasons. I would like to read Urdu, but I would be much more interested in learning conversation skills to talk to a migrant worker back in Saudi Arabia about his life experiences. I believe this semester will be a challenge, but my past experience will definitely help me along the way.