Family seems to be a central part of Korean society. Based on the research I’ve done on filial piety and what I’ve observed at my Korean friends’ houses and in Korean family dramas (i.e. All About My Mom), I can tell you that Korean children were raised to show respect towards their elders and parents regardless of their mood, personality, and circumstances. They may show their respect in subtle ways such as bowing and using formal speech.
South Korea is a country highly influenced by Confucian principles, which emphasizes filial piety and hierarchical structure in families. Although I’m not entirely sure about Korean-American families, I think they uphold a similar structure. South Korea is still very much a patriarchal society, so the father is the head of the household and is responsible for providing food, shelter, clothing for the family and arranging marriages for his children. The eldest son also has quite a bit of responsibility and therefore receives a lot of respect as well. If the father is no longer present, the eldest son takes over as the head of the family. This is why in the past Korean families typically preferred having a son. However, to combat the male-preference problem, the government revised family-related laws to establish equality between sons and daughters in terms of inheritance. The wife of the household is expected to take care of her husband’s aging parents. Traditionally, men were the sole breadwinners and decision makers in the family, but in modern day South Korea there has become a lot more flexibility.
Traditional Korean households were also fairly large. In fact, it was not uncommon for three or four generations to live together under one roof. During the Korean War, there was a period of famine and the infant mortality rate was high, so children were seen as a blessing. Later on, industrialization would further complicate the family structure in South Korea. Nowadays, many young married couples live away from their parents and extended families. Most South Korean households are now couple-centered nuclear families.