This week was discussion based and we focused on in a book called Pakistan - Social and Cultural Transformations in a Muslim Nation. I read through chapter nine in this book which was focused on family, kinship, community, and civil society. In this chapter, I read how the historical description of a typical family has been centered on a joint family where unmarried daughters reside with the family and married sons bring their wives into the house. Globalization and westernization has changed this family dynamic. Dependency is being encouraged among children where they are starting to live separately from their families. In the rural parts of Pakistan cousins often married each other.
As for identity, Zaka and I discussed the concept of what my family’s background as Muhajir. Zaka informed me how Muhajir means Muslim refugees from India. The way that Muhajir even speak Urdu is different from other tribes and sects in Pakistan which is what my parents are. In the reading, it was mentioned how 97% of the population in Pakistan is Muslim. Islam dominates the social life in Pakistan as well. Men and women keep a physical distance from each other. Drinking and Dancing are not your usual way of spending your weekends nor is it publicly done.