I think the video is very interesting and thought provoking. It has brought up a lot of points I haven't thought about; even the smallest of things can cause the biggest issues. It is also making me rethink the way I criticize international students and making sense of their misunderstandings.
Orientation: how overwhelming! That is a lot to handle coming into the country. I feel comforted by being so busy and having plans all of the time but many of the international students do not like to learn and experience so much so quickly to feel comfortable.
Classroom culture: not speaking in class seems to be the norm outside of the US. When other students do not speak up in class I tend to think poorly of them but knowing that it is the way of their culture makes more sense. I thought it might be a confidence matter but it is simply unnatural for them. They are also intimidated because of language barriers and that their ideas may not be worth sharing.
Reading, writing, and thinking in another language: this is incredibly hard. I experienced this when I took a class at the Sorbonne in Paris and the professor cut us a lot of slack (luckily). I was not fluent in french and really needed that. If my professor expected the same quality of work from us as from the french students I would not have done well in the class because it took so much effort to even read the assignment, writing a term paper at the end of the semester was another story. I now have a lot more respect for international students after taking that course and being in their positions. I know that most international students here are fluent in english so it is not exactly the same situation but I can understand how hard it is to keep up with the rigor of work.
The problems that people are having about the smallest things is so interesting. The way that americans aren't comfortable with silence, language connotations and colloquialisms, and other things I would never think about. A topic they brought up that I have actually been thinking about a lot lately is that americans are always so busy, and it is desirable to be busy. That can be very difficult to deal with on a day to day basis and a huge difference in culture. Adjusting to the way people act, manage their time, and plan their social lives is focused on staying busy. Coming from a laid back culture to this uptight, structured society must be unnerving.
It makes a lot of sense that international students would get along better with each other than americans because they have more in common. Their biggest common point is that they are different from the culture they are in and can bond over their differences from their one similarity.