Today I want to recommend a Korean film named "Kim Ji-young, Born 1982."
On the plane back to Richmond from home, I watched the film called "Kim Ji-young, Born 1982." It is a story about a girl named Kim Ji-young who quit her job because of pregnancy. Since the born of her daughter, Kim Ji-young had to spend all her time taking care of her and housework, including cleaning, cooking, etc. She has been depressed for a period of time, but she is not aware of it yet.
Kim Ji-young's husband has been trying to help her. He was looking around for therapists for her, and he tried to do some housework too, but it didn't work. The traditional views of a family from his mon and Kim Ji-young's dad had been stressing Kim Ji-young out for years. They represent the view of most people in the age of 60s, who cherish males more than girls. In their point of view, girls will be married and thus become a member of her husband's family (reflecting the change of the last name of the female when they get married).
Kim Ji-young is not the only one. There are thousands of hundreds of women in this world that are pressured to quit their jobs and become a housewife. She has been fighting back as well, showing the realization of equal rights of women these days. Her husband, trying to help her out from such a devastating situation, represents the response to the women from the world. But it is definitely not enough. The self-doubt Kim Ji-young has had, the sacrifices she has made, the mental pressure that has been put onto her by almost everyone around her have been a lot. Even though she has been fighting back hard, they are still hurting her in different ways.
I highly recommend this film because I could see myself, my friends, my mom and even my grandma in it. It is more than a story about Kim Ji-young. I cried so hard for this film because I knew this kind of world exists, and the things that Kim Ji-young has experienced could happen to any of us, and they are happening right now. The story is not dramatic, but the message is not simple. It is one of those that are worth watching and thinking about. I hope you guys enjoy the film! (If you are interested, there is a book version too.)