Formalities vs. Informalities in Turkish
As I embarked on an adventure of learning Turkish couple of weeks ago, I immediately started to notice the differences between the Turkish language and the languages that I'm already fluent in. One thing that immediately came to my attention were the differences between formalities and informalities of the Turkish language. As it turns out, it is extremely important to use formal language in Turkish whenever it's necessary. You have to necessarily use formal language when you do not know the person at all, when you know them a little, when the person is older(even if 1 or 2 years). Besides, you have to use formal language with your older relatives even if you have known them your whole life. As my language partner mentioned several times, it is increasingly important to show respect and behave properly in front of certain people. Turkish people have formal and informal ways of greetings, asking how are you, such as Selam and Merhaba ; Nasilsin and Nasilsiniz, respectively. They also use efendim, hanimefendi and hanimefendi before speaking to someone older.
In short, Turkish is a language that gives a major importance to formalities and respect, therefore, if you end up in Turkey one day, make sure to follow this rule.
On an additional note, Turks have a collective culture, unlike the American individualistic culture. They are very hospitable, outgoing, curious and they like to do everything together and at the same time! Turkish people like to ask questions, take answers and know the details of your life, and although they require formality and respect, they are very friendly and helpful. They also like to stare at people, talk bout them and know everything, so do not be surprised!
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http://www.fethiyetimes.com/magazine/20836-turkish-customs-might-not-know-part-two.html
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