When greeting someone, Koreans always bow. The same goes for when saying farewell to someone. Shaking hands is allowed but is usually done by men. When shaking, Koreans put their left hand on their right forearm to show respect. Never address Koreans with their given names, you have to address them by their professional titles. If I was to address someone who is a few years older than me, I would say unni to an older girl and oppa to an older guy. Using words like this man, that man, guy, fellow, etc are considered demeaning and not showing proper respect to individuals.
Touching is acceptable only under certain situations. Being touched by a stranger is unacceptable though as it is seen as being rude and impolite. On the contrary, touching a friend is allowed. Eye contact with older people is avoided as it is a sign of respect. If this is done in a business setting, they see it as a challenge. Whenever passing or receiving something, Koreans always use their right hand supported by left hand or both hands. Pointing with an index finger is never appropriate. If it's necessary to point, Koreans will point at the sky.
Building trust first is important among Koreans, which can only be done by establishing a relationship. A relationship and trust must be laid as the foundation for any conversation. Drinking and eating is the main way of building relationships with Koreans. Therefore when invited to eat, drink, or go out, always accept. Saying no to this is considered rude and an insult. Koreans avoid saying no, so yes doesn't mean that it is a yes. Never pour your own drink, but do pour others drinks. Refusing a drink is an insult. Talking at dinner is not common. Appearance is very important to Koreans. They always dress nicely or modestly. They tend to speak honestly especially when it comes to appearances. Additionally they will ask a lot of personal questions about someone's life.
Koreans hit their knees when they have come up with a new idea. Smiling is not very common in public. Any sort of communication is brief and to the point. Koreans view your treatment of their business card as a reflection of how you would treat them.
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