It was early in the afternoon on Monday, so we just expected to meet with some church elders. Eventually we see a man go out into the clearing and start beating a drum (later it was explained that he was calling people to worship). And people dropped what they were doing to come to an impromptu worship service. It didn't matter that it was Monday and there was work to be done. It could be done later.
The next portion of the reading discussed individualist v collectivist cultures. Tanzania is very collectivist. What is good for the whole is more important than what is best for the individual. People are expected to reach out and help their friends and family in need. There is almost no focus on the individual. In the younger generations, there is more of a push for people to go to secondary school and if they are lucky enough to "University," but it is more to benefit the community rather than the individual.
I also really enjoyed the nonverbal communication section. I noticed while I was in Tanzania, there were certain things that were universal, especially smiles. I visited a pottery shop near Matema Beach, and kids swarmed around me. At one point, I had six kids hanging onto my two hands. I couldn't speak with them because they didn't even know Swahili, just Nyacusa. But they were talking amongst themselves, smiling, and laughing. My only method of communicating with them was through my own smile. It was one of my favorite days of my time there.
Another thing that I learned were the differences in various gestures or other nonverbal methods of communication. For instance, in Tanzania holding hands is only between friends, not between couples.When I visited Manow Secondary School, one of the guys grabbed my hand and held it as we walked around. It wasn't out of any romantic feelings, but feelings of friendship. And you would never point one finger at someone because it is considered rude.
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