I met with my language partner, Susan, and asked her a few questions about the linguistic aspects of Farsi. First, I wanted to know if the "thumbs up" sign was offensive in countries where Farsi is spoken. She informed me that it carries the same meaning: "good job" or "well done." Then, I looked online and a site told me it is actually vulgar to do in Iran. Susan is from Afghanistan, so maybe there is some difference. Also, I learned that younger people kiss the hands of the elderly when they greet them. This is a sign of respect.
I found a Website that mentioned a lot of the gestures, so I will list them below. I am not sure how valid they are, so I will confirm that with Susan.(These are particular to Iran.)
1. Remove shoes when entering a home or mosque.
2.Signaling: put out your hand(palm down) and curl your fingers with a scrating motion
3. Thumbs up = vulgar
4. Signal Yes by dipping your head down with a slight turn
5. Signal No by moving your head up and back sharply
Afghanistan Facts ---I found this and thought it was very interesting (http://www.kwintessential.co.uk/resources/global-etiquette/afghanistan.html)
The Family
o The family is the single most important unit in the Afghan culture.
o Men and women's roles are much more defined along traditional lines.
o Women are generally responsible for household duties, where as men will be the bread winners. In the cities professional women do exist.
o Families commonly arrange marriages for their children. Factors such as tribe, status, network, and wealth are the major factors forming any choice.
o Families traditionally live together in the same walled compound, known as the kala. When a son gets married he and his wife begin their married lives in a room under the same roof.
o As with much of the Muslim world, the family is sacred and as such, is highly protected. As a result, probing about the family is not advised.
Meeting and Greeting
o When meeting someone the handshake is the most common form on greeting. You will also see people place their hands over their hearts and nod slightly.
o One should always enquire about things like a person's health, business, family, etc.
o Women and men will never shake hands let alone speak directly to one another.
o Eye contact should also be avoided between men and women. Between men eye contact is acceptable as long as it is not prolonged - it is best to only occasionally look someone in the eyes.
I could go on and on. This site is telling me everything I need to know, from greeting etiquette to business etiquitte.
I love my Fasri journey already and Sunday was my first day learning it.
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