Since Farsi is also spoken in Afghanistan I thought it would be interesting to study some cultural aspects of that country as well. While greeting new people men and women usually exchange verbal greetings. Women are also welcome to extend their hands in order to initiate a handshake but men cannot do the same for women. Personal space should also be respected. Usually between men and women an arm's length of space should be kept. Between friends of the same gender though this distance is greatly reduced.
Eye contact also differs between the United States and Afghanistan. People of the same gender and age usually look each other in the eye. Younger members of society though should use indirect eye contact with their elders. Women and men should also avoid consistent, intentional eye contact with one another.
Afghanistan seems to be a strange mix of polychronic and monochronic culture. Usually more emphasis is placed on relationships and spending time with each other than actually meeting set deadlines. On the other hand, punctuality in business situations is appreciated and respected.
Afghanistan also has some cultural taboos. A few of them involve feet. Because they are seen as the "lowliest body parts," showing the sole of your shoe, pointing your heel or toe at someone, or moving something with your foot are all considered disrespectful. On a different note, men and women should not display affection in public. Also, like in Iran, refusing tea upon arrival will also be seen as rude. Other customs that parallel those of Iran include bringing a pastry or a nicely wrapped gift to the person's house.
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