For this cultural post, I want to explore the culture of strict formality, for anyone that is above your age. My language partner have told me that it is almost an entire language on its own, because it attaches many prefix, suffixes, new words, etc. On its own, I think being formal is a good thing, because it promotes a respectful, modest atmosphere, however, being so strict as it is in Korea, formality becomes a pressure. In the various Korean dramas I've watched, the younger person does all kinds of things for the elder, such as getting coffee, running errands, and if you don't bow 90 degrees to your elder, you get yelled at. These kinds of responsibilities placed on young people makes formality a burden, which diminishes the level of respect involved in formality.
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I could agree that formality is a big part of culture in Korea, but the last thing you mentioned is not really the true case. As a native, I can tell you that yes it does come with some responsibilities, but it is what has become to be normal so we don't really think of it as a burden. These responsibility became to be what it is because the lower does it out of respect. There are people who abuse this relationship and that is an extreme that shouldn't be happening. One shouldn't be forced to run errands and get yelled at. Also, lots of Korean drama do not portray the right idea and take it to the extreme so don't base your culture learning too much on drama. Those errands may be seen in a work environment and that is a whole different culture concept that you should look into.