New Journal Entry #4

[Mark Kligman]

As any country, Turkey has it's own body language. It can be kind of funny or even strange for some other culture to watch those gestures and try to understand what a person is trying to tell you. Understanding the body language is also understanding the culture of a country. So here are some main body languages that can be seen in Turkey. The handshake is not the most common greeting among friends. A man will greet another man by kissing each other on both cheeks. A man will greet a woman also in the same way. Note that if there are two religious people, they would not touch themselves with a handshake or kiss. It is very common in Turkey to see two men holding hands or arm in arm at walking on the street (Turks tend to touch much more than Westerners). This usually means that they are good friends. Turks tend to stare at one another and foreigners more than Westerners are accustomed to. Someone holding their hand with palm up and bringing fingers in toward thumb, this is a compliment and generally means something is "good." It is usually done when Turkish people are satisfied with their food and other objects. It can also mean that they find a woman or man nice and handsome. The "thumbs up" gesture is commonly used for hitchhiking. Shaking your head sideways means, "I don't understand." Raising your chin, moving your eyebrows up and simultaneously clicking your tongue means "No." (This one is one of the most different gestures of the Turkish body language and can be also found in Greece.) A sharp downward nod means yes. If a Turk waves their hand up and down at you, palm towards the ground, they are signaling for you to come. The gesture created by protruding your thumb between the first and second finger has an extremely offensive meaning. This gesture is called "the fig" and is considered obscene throughout much of the Mediterranean area.The idle habit of snapping your fingers with one hand and then slapping the top of a closed fist is considered obscene. This may be one of the rudest possible gestures.The gesture created when a circle is formed by touching the forefinger to the thumb does not mean "ok." In Turkey this symbol is a rude homosexual reference, it is quite offensive. It is also rude to point your finger or the sole of your shoe toward a person.