I watched a Turkish movie yesterday called Issiz adam. I watched this movie because I really liked the main actor from the other Turkish movie Hazal asked us to watch. In the film, Alpher is the owner of a restaurant. Like nostalgic music, he is a lonely man, every night he will spend money sleeping with different women. Then during the day, he lived a normal life as a good chef. At night, he began to linger over different women's bodies.
Until a beautiful encounter, he met Ada, a beautiful and temperament woman, who has her own second-hand clothing store and only designs clothes for children, but she lives in a very ordinary and even a little bit tedious life. However, they fell in love.
It's just that after a period of getting along and having fun, Alpher suddenly says that they should break up, which makes Ada very unacceptable. But still, they don't contact each other anymore.
Alpher feels nothing about breaking about until one morning, the hairpin Ada left at his house slipping down from the glass, he cried, and he realized he hasn't let go this short-lived relationship at all. Then Alpher began his life being alone, with a yearning and guilty to wait for Ada.
It's just unexpected they will meet again many years later. They meet at the gate of the cinema. Ada cut her hair to very short, and at that time she was having tea with friends. She and Alpher stand face to face at the entrance of the cinema and cover up their inner nostalgia and love with lies. This scene made my tears keep falling down.
For the last hug, there was a hilarious scene. I thought the story would have a perfect ending, but after the hug, there was endless sadness. The music rang again, and I cried. Even if they turned their backs after hugging, Ada cried. Alpher also walked out of the cinema, looking dazed and disappointed.
The movie doesn't talk about love exaggeratedly. It begins as a simple meeting. Because of their appearance or hobbies, they started to fall in love. And they were separated by misunderstanding, and then it went through a few twists and turned to a really realistic ending. The movie makes people understand that love exists, but love is not always perfect in real life. Everyone has their own problems and puzzles.
Maybe the thing I'm confused about is that if two people have a very romantic experience of 1-2 months, can both men and women miss each other for 5 years? Before this idea, I thought that the film was very practical, and this made my opinion swing, because I felt that people's ability to adapt to the environment is strong, and emotional change is relatively easy, so this is not realistic. Of course, maybe my life experience is not that long, and I haven't seen such feelings before.
The director and screenwriter are really delicate, and the actors are so great, especially the leading actors. From the beginning to the end, I actually really understand the reason why Alpher made those "wrong" decisions because I made very similar mistakes before and sometimes we just cannot control these things to happen, even though you knew you would regret it one day.
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